[बुख़ारी 5409]
● हमेशा मुस्कुराते रहिए।
[तिर्मिज़ी 3641]
● क्रोधित और उग्र न हों।
[बुख़ारी 6116]
[बुलूगुल मराम 16:59/1505/1548]
[माजह 3682]
[बुख़ारी 1417]
● लोगों के प्रति अच्छा व्यवहार करें।
[हदीस नवावी 18]
● किसी को नुकसान न पहुंचाएं ताकि आपको भी नुकसान न पहुंचे।
[हदीस नवावी 32]
[अलअदब अलमुफ़र्द 371]
● जो व्यक्ति किसी की एक कठिनाई भी दूर करता है, ईश्वर उसकी कठिनाइयाँ दूर करेगा। जो व्यक्ति किसी परेशान इंसान को थोड़ी सी भी राहत प्रदान करता है, ईश्वर उसके लिए आसानी पैदा करेगा। जो दुसरो की मदद करता है, ईश्वर उसकी मदद करता है।
[रियाज़ुस्सालिहीन 245]
● जो ईश्वर की छत्रछाया में रहना चाहता है, उसे चाहिए कि वह सकंट में पड़े हुए व्यक्ति की सहायता करे या उसका कर्ज़ माफ कर दे।
[माजह 2419]
● जो दूसरों की गलतियों और बुराइयों को ढकता है, उसकी कमियाँ भी छिपा ली जाती हैं।
[रियाज़ुस्सालिहीन 245]
[अलअदब अलमुफ़र्द 1:4/5, 27:479/480, मुसनद 12902]
[बुख़ारी 94]
[जामे तिरमिज़ी 1916]
[बुख़ारी 676, रियाज़ुस्सालिहीन 605]
● रिश्तेदारियां अच्छे ढंग से निभाओ।
[माजह 3251]
[तिर्मिज़ी 2612]
● जो बच्चों के साथ दया नहीं दिखाता, उसे भी दया नहीं दी जाएगी।
[मुस्लिम 2318, दावूद 5218]
● जो बच्चों पर दया नहीं करता है और न ही हमारे बुजुर्गों के अधिकारों को महत्व देता है, वह हम में से नहीं है।
[अलअदब अलमुफ़र्द 353, 354, 363]
[माजह 3287]
【 Neighbours】
He is not a believer whose stomach is filled while his neighbours goes hungry"
[Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 112]
That person does not believe whose neighbors does not feel safe from his evil.
[Bukhari 6016]
The best of neighbours to Allah is the one who is the best of them to his neighbour.
[Riyad as Salihin 311]
Give presents to the one whose door is nearer to you.
[Bukhari 2259]
Whenever you prepare a broth, add water to it, give it to neighbours.
[Muslim 2625c]
It was recommend to treat the neighbors kindly and politely so much so that if as they would be your heirs.
[Bukhari 6014]
【Women Right】
Treat women nicely,
[Bukhari 3331]
A woman should not be married without her permission.
[Dawud 2092]
【 Food and Water】
Feed the hungry and poor, visit the sick and greet all.
[Bukhari 5649, 12; Majah 3251]
Providing drinking water is the best charity.
[Nasa'i 3664]
【 Plantation, Saving Water】
[Bukhari 2320, Muslim 1552, 1552c]
Do not waste water even if you are on the bank of a river
[Majah 425]
【 Mercy, Pity, Kindness】
He who is not merciful to others, will not be treated mercifully/ Allah will not be merciful to those who are not merciful to mankind.
[Bukhari 6013; 7376]
He who is deprived of Kindness is in fact deprived of goodness.
[Muslim 2592]
There is a reward for serving any animate/ for kindness for every living thing.
[Bukhari 2466]
Do you not fear? This camel is complaining to me that you starve it and put it to toil.
[Riyad as-Salihin 967]
【What are considered Charity】
Every act of kindness is charity."
[Mishkat 1893]
A good/kind word is a charity.
[Bukhari 2891]
Removing a harmful object from the road is a charity.”
[Bukhari 2989]
A man's spending on his family is a deed of charity."
[Bukhari 4006]
Your smiling in the face of your brother is charity, commanding good and forbidding evil is charity, your giving directions to a man lost in the land is charity for you, your removal of a rock, a thorn or a bone from the road is charity for you."
[Tirmidhi 1956]
【 Monetary Sadqa】
Give the sadaqa without delay, for it stands in the way of calamity
[Masabih 1887]
Don't delay giving in charity till the time when you are on the death bed.
[Bukhari 2748]
The upper hand is better than the lower one"
[Riyad as Salihin 296]
the person who practices charity so secretly that his left hand does not know what his right hand has given, will be shaded by Allah.
[Bukhari 1423]
【Orphan, widows, poor】
I and the person who looks after an orphan and provides for him, will be this close (together) in Paradise,"
[Bukhari 6005]
The best house is a house in which there is an orphan who is treated well.
[Majah 3679]
One who strives to help the widows and the poor is like the one who fights in the way of Allah.
[Riyad as Salihin 265]
The worst kind of food is that at a wedding-feast to which the rich are invited and from which the poor are left out.
[Masabih 3218]
【 Injustice, Oppression】
Beware of injustice.
[Al Adab Al Mufrad 488]
Be afraid, from the curse of the oppressed as there is no screen between his invocation and Allah."
[Bukhari 2448]
Help the oppressed and Prevent the oppressor from oppressing people"
[Bukhari 2444]
Beware, if anyone wrongs a contracting man, or diminishes his right, or forces him to work beyond his capacity, or takes from him anything without his consent, I shall plead for him on the Day of Judgment.
[Dawood 3052]
Whoever among you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; if he cannot, then with his tongue; if he cannot, then with his heart and that is the weakest of Faith.'
[Nasa'i 5008]
【 Family, Children, Wife,】
There is no gift that a father gives his son more virtuous than good manners."
[Tirmidhi 1952]
Act equally between your children; Act equally between your sons.
[Dawud 3544]
The man has two daughters and he brings them up nicely, he will be granted Paradise.
[Majah 3670]
[Majah 1977]
【 Mother, Father, Parents】
Paradise is beneath the feet of the mother.
[Nasa'i 3104]
The prophet said three times that the Most deserving of your good behaviour is your mother, your mother, your mother.
[Muslim 2548b]
The father is the middle door of Paradise.
[Dawood 3663]
You and your wealth belong to your father.
[Majah 2291]
To be good and dutiful to one's parents is loved most by Allah.
[Bukhari 5970]
Let him be humbled into dust. He who sees either or both of his parents but he does not enter Paradise (not serve them)
[Muslim 2551]
No one of you becomes a true believer until he likes for his brother what he likes for himself".
[Riyad as Salihin 183]
He who does not thank the people is not thankful to Allah.
[Dawud 4811]
He who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride shall not enter Paradise.
[Muslim 91c]
There are two blesings that many people are deceived into losing: health and free time."
[Bukhari 6412]
Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler."
[Bukhari 6416]
【Qualities, Character, Manners, good Habits】
Simplicity & Modesty is part of faith.’
[Majah 4118 & Nasa'i 5033]
Nothing is heavier on the believer's scale than good character/manners.
[Tirmidhi 2002]
Do not look for the others' faults and do not spy, and do not be jealous of one another, and do not desert (cut your relation with) one another, and do not hate one another.
[Bukhari 6064]
Do not feel envy against one another; do not nurse enmity; do not spy on one another and do not cheat one another.
[Riyad as Salihin 1570]
【 Bad words, Fight, Anger】
Allah hates one who utters foul or coarse language.
[Riyad as-Salihin 625]
A true believer does not taunt or curse or abuse or talk indecently."
[Riyad as-Salihin 1734]
The most hated person in the sight of Allah is the most quarrelsome person."
[Bukhari 2457]
The Muslim or Believer is the one from whose tongue and hand the people and their wealth are safe.
[Nasa'i 4995]
The strong man is not the good wrestler; but is he who controls himself when he is angry.
[Bulugh al Maram 1524]
【Speaking good, Truth, Lie】
Say the truth even though it is bitter.
[Bulugul Maram 132]
It is enough falsehood for a man to relate everything he hears.”
[Mishkat al-Masabih 156]
Speak good or remain silent. Do not indulge in excessive talk
[Riyad as Salihin 1511 & 1518]
【Social Mesages】
Cleanliness is half of faith and charity is proof (of one's faith)
[Muslim 223]
Seeking knowledge is a duty upon every Muslim
[Da'if-Majah 224]
Eat, give charity and clothe yourselves, without being extravagant, and without showing off.
[Daeef-Nasa'i 2559]
Give the worker his wages before his sweat dries.
[Majah 2443]
No one withholds/hoards goods/food till their price rises but a sinner.
[Dawud 3447]
Make things easy for the people, and do not make it difficult for them
[Bukhari 6125]
The prophet once said that the entire creation (humanity) is the family of God.
[Musnad Al Bazzar, Vol.13, Page 332]
[Bukhari 1417]
Whenever the Prophet asked permission to enter, he knocked the door thrice with greeting and whenever he spoke a sentence (said a thing) he used to repeat it thrice.
[Bukhari 94]
The Prophet never criticized any food (he was invited to) but he used to eat if he liked the food, and leave it if he disliked it.
[Bukhari 5409]
I have not seen anyone who smiled more than the Messenger of Allah.
[Tirmidhi 3641]
What did Messenger of Allah used to do inside his house? She answered, He used to keep himself busy helping members of his family, and when it was the time for Salat, he would get up for prayer.
[Bukhari 676, Riyadas Salihin 605]
There was a branch of a tree that annoyed the people. A man removed it, so he was admitted to Paradise.
[Majah 3682]
Uphold the ties of kinship.
[Majah 3251]
[Majah 2419]
मुहम्मद सल्ल. की जीवनी
अरब में बच्चा पैदा हुआ. चारों ओर जहालत. बच्ची और स्त्रियों की हालत. बाप दादओं के ज़माने से दुश्मनियाँ. माँ बाप की मृत्यु, चाचा की भी मृत्यु. सादिक और अमीन लकब. खानदानो में होती हुई लड़ाई संगे/हजरे अस्वद का विवाद का हल आपके हाथों में दे दिया. हल्फुल/हिल्फुल (दोनों नाम सही) फजूल में भागी जिसका मक़सद किसी पर अत्याचार नहीं होने देंगे, हक़ नहीं मारने देंगे. कहा था दुबारा बने तो शामिल होंगा, मुस्लिम तो खुद एक तंजीम थे, यह गैर मुस्लिम की तंजीम की ओर ईशारा था. एकांत में बैठना शुरु हुआ. वाणी आई तो नमाज़, हज, रोज़ा बाद में आदेश आया. अत्याचार, अनाथों, बच्चियों के लिए आदेश आये. उसे दौलत, औरत, शोहरत, बादशाही सभी प्रलोभन दिए गए, मगर उसने नहीं माने. ऐसी शिक्षाएं दी जो वंहा की सारी समस्याओं को हल कर सके. आज की सरकारों से ज़्यादा गरीबी रेखा निर्धारित करी. बेटी की परवरिश पर जन्नत की बात कही. एक आदमी मक्का के बाहर बैठ कर आने जाने वालो को कहता था की फला मेरी बेटी उठा लाया है, नबी को टकराया, नबी ने उसके घर जा कर सिर्फ यही कहा कि इसकी बेटी वापिस करो और उसने डर के कर दी. महापुरूषों की बात में रौब होता है और हिल्फुल फ़िज़ूल के मेम्बेर भी थे.
पडोसी को खाना दो, ईमान जाता रहा, उनसे बड़ा किसका फतवा, 40 घरों को पड़ोस करार दिया. इसमें मुस्लिम, गैर मुस्लिम की शर्त नहीं लगाई. वो खुद क्यों मांगे, उसकी self respect क्यों hurt हो, आपको ध्यान रखना था.

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